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Alternatives to Abortion in Florida

Given the Florida Supreme Court’s recent 6-week ban on termination of pregnancies, many women in the state of Florida who are faced with an unplanned pregnancy are now left unsure of how to proceed. This ban, authorized on April 1st, 2024, and implemented on May 1st, 2024, has limited choices for women who find themselves pregnant beyond the six-week mark. For many, this time frame is too short to realize they are pregnant, effectively eliminating abortion as an option for most women in Florida.

This drastic change has sparked widespread concern and confusion among expectant mothers who feel their autonomy over their bodies has been compromised. The decision to continue or terminate a pregnancy is deeply personal and can be influenced by various factors including health, financial stability, and personal circumstances. With the new law in place, women are now compelled to explore other avenues, which may not have been their first choice.

Although the option of abortion after six weeks for most women in Florida is gone, except under special circumstances, there are still alternatives available. In this article we aim to shed light on these alternatives, offering guidance and options to those who may feel their  choices are limited. Understanding these choices can help women make informed decisions about their futures and the futures of their unborn children.

What is Banned in the Florida 6-Week Abortion Ban?

The new Florida law, which took effect on May 1st, 2024, bans any abortion or pregnancy termination after the six-week mark. This law significantly restricts access to abortion services, as many women may not even be aware they are pregnant within this short time frame. The law has been a source of concern for many, as it imposes severe limitations on reproductive rights.

However, there are very unique exemptions to this law. For example, if the expectant mother’s health is at immediate risk of death or permanent physical harm, an abortion may still be legally performed. These exemptions are narrowly defined and are subject to stringent scrutiny, meaning that only a small number of women will qualify for them. Other common reasons for seeking an abortion, such as financial instability or personal readiness, are not considered valid under this law.

The implications of this ban are far-reaching, impacting not only the women directly affected but also the healthcare providers and support systems around them. Understanding the specifics of what is banned and what exemptions exist is crucial for navigating this new legal landscape. It is important for women to be aware of their rights and the available alternatives when faced with an unplanned pregnancy.

What are the Alternatives to Abortion in Florida?

With this new ruling, although the choice of abortion doesn’t exist for most women following the six-week mark, there are alternatives. These alternatives require the woman to carry the baby through to delivery, but each comes with different outcomes and can be an alternative to raising the baby yourself.

Options such as adoption and placing the baby in foster care provide avenues for women who may not feel ready to become parents. These alternatives offer different levels of involvement and control over the child’s future, allowing women to choose what aligns best with their circumstances and values.

Adoption as an Alternative to Abortion in Florida

Placing your baby for adoption can be a viable alternative if you feel that raising a child is not the right choice for you at this time. Private adoption services, such as those offered by Hausmann & Hickman, P.A., afford you a significant level of control over your baby’s future. Through private adoption, you have the power to select the adoptive family based on how they align with your beliefs and values, ensuring your child is raised in an environment you find suitable.

We understand that adoption is a very personal, significant choice that is not made lightly. For over 25 years our office has handled each adoption with compassion and respect, and we acknowledge that adoption is a choice that has lifelong impacts on all parties involved – the child, biological parents, and adoptive parents. Adoption is not simply an alternative to abortion, and involves emotions that cannot truly be comprehended by anyone who has not been in the position to make such a decision themselves. With the current limitations on choices regarding unplanned pregnancy in Florida, we believe it is important for expectant parents to be aware of private adoption so that they may weigh the options that are available and make an informed decision based on their needs and their desires for their child.

One of the key factors in a  private adoption is the ability to choose an adoption plan that works for you. You can decide on the type of adoption you want, whether it’s closed, open, or semi-open. In an open or semi-open adoption, you have the opportunity to maintain some level of involvement in your child’s life. This can provide some comfort, knowing that you can still have a connection with your child even after the adoption process is complete.

Working with a private adoption attorney means you will receive comprehensive support throughout the process. Hausmann & Hickman, P.A. provides guidance and assistance, ensuring you understand every step and feel confident in your decision. Unlike an adoption plan with a Florida adoption agency, Hausmann & Hickman, P.A. will provide each birth mother counseling provided by an independent counselor not employed by our firm.  This support can make a significant difference, helping you navigate the emotional and logistical aspects of adoption with compassion and professionalism.

Choosing adoption allows you to play a major role in your child’s future, even before they are born. You can ensure that they are placed in a loving home where they will receive the care and opportunities you wish for them. It’s a decision that prioritizes the well-being of both you and your baby, offering a path that respects your circumstances and desires.

Adoption can be a powerful choice, providing a sense of empowerment and relief. Private adoption can offer a solution that honors your needs and the needs of your baby. For many women facing an unplanned pregnancy, private adoption can provide a compassionate and practical alternative.

Placing Your Baby with A Family Member or Friend

Private adoption does not always mean your child will be placed with a family that you did not know personally prior to considering adoption. You may consider an adoption placement with a family member or friend, someone you know and trust is financially and emotionally prepared to parent your child through adoption.. Our office is experienced in completing these identified adoptions in which the biological parents and adoptive family already have a personal connection, whether through family, friends or within their community. With this option, you may create a plan with the adoptive parent or parents to maintain a connection with your child after the adoption.

Placing Your Baby in Foster Care

Another option, should you not feel ready to raise a child, is placing your baby in foster care. Foster care allows expectant mothers to place their baby in someone else’s legal care. This can be a temporary solution or a step towards permanent placement through adoption by another family.

However, it is important to note that with foster care, your baby’s future is largely out of your control. Unlike private adoption, where you can select the adoptive family and may choose to remain involved with your child, foster care does not provide the same level of choice. The state makes decisions about where the child is placed and their long-term care.

Children in foster care may face uncertainty regarding their future. They may be moved between different homes, and the timing of a permanent adoption can be unpredictable. This lack of stability can be challenging for both the child and the biological mother, who may worry about their child’s well-being in an uncertain system.

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If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy and the recent Florida abortion ban has made you search for alternatives, the adoption attorneys at Hausmann & Hickman, P.A. are here to help. A conversation with us is completely free and confidential, with no pressure or obligation to move forward. We can discuss the various alternatives to raising your child yourself, providing answers to any of your questions and helping you navigate your options.

At Hausmann & Hickman, P.A., we aim to be sensitive to the emotions involved in making such significant decisions. Our goal is to support you with compassion and professionalism, ensuring you are informed and empowered in your choices. You can call us any time at 561-732-7030 to speak with one of our experienced attorneys who are ready to assist you.

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Alternatives to Placing Your Baby in Foster Care

Facing an unplanned pregnancy can be an incredibly challenging experience. If you find yourself in this situation, it’s important to remember that you are not alone. Every year, many women grapple with similar feelings of uncertainty and concern about the future. It’s crucial to recognize that you have options beyond raising your child on your own or placing them in foster care. While foster care serves as a vital safety net in our society, exploring alternatives that might provide a more stable and loving environment for your unborn child could offer additional benefits for their future.

At Hausmann & Hickman, P.A., we specialize in adoption law and have supported many  women who have made the decision to place their child for adoption. In this blog, we will discuss some of the viable alternatives to foster care, focusing on the advantages that adoption can provide. Our goal is to empower you with knowledge and support as you consider the best path forward for both you and your baby.

Placing Your Baby in Foster Care

When considering the future of your child, foster care is often a well-known option. Foster care provides a temporary home for children whose parents are unable to care for them due to various circumstances. Legally, placing your child in foster care is a viable option if you find yourself unable to provide the necessary care and support they need.

However, while foster care can offer a solution, it is not without its drawbacks. One significant concern is the lack of permanency. Children in foster care may move between multiple homes and are not guaranteed a permanent family through adoption. This lack of stability can affect their emotional and psychological development, as the consistent parental bond and nurturing environment are crucial during a child’s formative years. Additionally, the longer a child remains in foster care, the less likely they are to be adopted, which can lead to challenges in forming lasting attachments and relationships.

Considering these factors, it’s worth exploring alternatives that can offer more stability and a loving family environment from the start. One such alternative is private adoption, which we will discuss next.

Placing Your Baby for Adoption as an Alternative to Foster Care

Adoption presents a promising alternative to foster care, providing a sense of permanency and stability from the very beginning of a child’s life. At Hausmann & Hickman, P.A., we have facilitated the adoption process for numerous birth mothers, providing support and guidance at every step. Our firm works with carefully screened families who are eager to provide a loving home to a child.

By choosing to work with our attorneys, you have the opportunity to select the adoptive family for your baby. This choice allows you to envision and influence the kind of future your child will have. We understand the emotional complexities involved in this decision, which is why we commit to supporting you with compassion and guidance throughout the adoption process.

Benefits to Placing Your Baby for Adoption

Placing your baby for adoption through our private adoption placement program offers substantial benefits. Our private adoption placement program connects you with adoptive parents who are prepared to provide a nurturing, supportive, and loving home. Unlike placements through larger adoption agencies or the foster care system, our approach is personal and focused, ensuring that your baby can leave the hospital directly into the arms of the chosen family without the involvement of state agencies like DCF.

As a birth parent, you will face no financial burden in this process. We handle your case with the utmost sensitivity and dedication, tailoring our services to meet your unique needs. Whether you prefer an open adoption, where you maintain contact with your child and their adoptive family, a semi-open adoption, or a completely closed adoption, we can create an adoption plan that best suits your comfort level and desires.

Our private adoption placement program not only provides immediate benefits but also fosters a sense of long-term security and fulfillment for both the child and the adoptive family. You have the ability to create a birth plan, choose the family, and decide on future communication, which can significantly ease your peace of mind knowing that your child is placed with the family you choose.

Interested in Learning More?

If you are considering adoption for your baby, Hausmann & Hickman, P.A. is here to help. We offer detailed information about our private adoption placement program and are ready to answer any questions you may have. You can contact us on our website or give us a call at 561-732-7030. All conversations with us are strictly confidential.

Remember, making a decision about your child’s future is significant, but you do not have to do it alone. 

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Can You Choose Who Adopts Your Baby?

At Hausmann & Hickman, P.A., we understand the emotional complexities involved in the decision to place your baby for adoption. Recognizing that this choice comes with a multitude of feelings and questions, we hope this blog will serve as a resource for birth mothers seeking clarity and guidance. Our aim is to empower you with information to help you make an informed decision about your child’s future. In this post, we delve into a common and significant question asked by birth mothers: “Can you choose the family who adopts your baby?” Our discussion is aimed at providing you with comprehensive insights into your rights and options in the adoption process.

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Pregnant and Considering Adoption

At Hausmann & Hickman, P.A., we work with many courageous women facing the difficult decision of whether to raise their child or place  for adoption. We understand that this is not a choice made lightly, but one considered out of deep love and concern for the child’s future. This blog post aims to provide insight and support to you if you are pregnant and contemplating adoption for your child. Our team of compassionate professionals recognizes the complexities of emotions and circumstances involved in this decision. We’re here to guide you through this journey, ensuring that you are informed, supported, and respected every step of the way.

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How do I Make an Adoption Plan for My Child?

At Hausmann & Hickman, P.A., we understand the emotional complexities and legal intricacies involved in the adoption process. Our firm is dedicated to supporting birth mothers who are contemplating the significant decision of placing their baby for adoption. Recognizing the courage it takes to consider this path, our team is here to provide professional and compassionate guidance every step of the way. Today’s blog aims to shed light on a crucial aspect of the adoption process: creating an adoption plan. An adoption plan allows birth mothers to have a say in their child’s future, ensuring their wishes are respected and their child is placed in a loving, secure home that aligns with their values and hopes.

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What are the Benefits of Working with an Adoption Attorney?

Choosing to place a child for adoption is a journey that requires not only emotional support but also professional guidance. At Hausmann & Hickman, P.A., we specialize in Florida adoption law and provide essential legal information for birth parents considering the legal and personal process of placing their child for adoption. Understanding the legal complexities of adoption is essential, and in today’s blog, we aim to illuminate the substantial benefits of working with an adoption attorney.

With over 20 years of experience in adoption law, our attorneys at Hausmann & Hickman offer a guiding hand to help navigate the adoption process. We know that each situation is as unique as the individuals involved, and we commit to delivering personalized services that honor your choices and prioritize your well-being. The decision to work with an adoption attorney can offer birth mothers peace of mind that the attorney is working to protect their rights and their desires for their child’s future.

An adoption attorney can stand with you at each crossroad and provide empathy and support as you consider the decisions you, as a birth parent, believe are in the best interest of yourself and your baby. Let’s explore the benefits that an adoption attorney can provide.

Benefits of Working with an Adoption Attorney

When considering adoption, the guidance of a seasoned adoption attorney is invaluable. An attorney can provide clarity so that every step you take is informed and secure. Here are some key benefits to working with an adoption attorney:

  • Personalized care and attention to each individual adoption. Unlike a large adoption agency, an adoption attorney provides individualized care and attention to each adoption. An adoption attorney works closely with a birth mother to ensure she feels heard and that her needs during her pregnancy are met, as well as her post-adoption wishes.
  • Independent legal counsel and supportive services. Unlike large adoption agencies where all services are provided by employees of the agency, at Hausmann & Hickman birth parents receive independent supportive services at no cost to the birth parents. Each birth mother has the right to their own independent social worker or mental health counselor and legal counsel, and Hausmann & Hickman assists birth parents with obtaining these services.
  • Providing guidance and support throughout the adoption process: An adoption attorney is instrumental in navigating the legal waters of the adoption process. With our comprehensive understanding of adoption laws and regulations,  we work to protect a birth mother’s choice. Hausmann & Hickman guides a birth mother through each step of the adoption process, including: choosing a family, planning for the birth, specifying preferences for post-adoption contact, and completing consent documents.
  • Assisting you in the creation of your adoption plan: An adoption attorney plays a crucial role in formulating an adoption plan that reflects your wishes. They understand the importance of your wishes for your child and work diligently to follow your adoption plan. From the level of openness in the adoption to the choice of the adoptive family, your attorney is there to assist in creating a plan that aligns with your vision.
  • Helping you select your adoptive parents: Choosing an adoptive family for your child is one of the most important decisions you will make. An adoption attorney can assist in this process by presenting you with profiles of potential adoptive parents who have been thoroughly vetted and meet your criteria. They can also coordinate meetings and discussions with the adoptive family, providing a safe space for you to ask questions and get to know the prospective parents.
  • Overseeing the adoption so you, and your baby, are protected: Overseeing the legal process of adoption, an adoption attorney performs all actions in compliance with state laws, which can vary greatly and change frequently. They ensure that the adoption is both ethical and legal. This includes completing the legal process to terminate parental rights of the birth parents and establish the parental rights of the adoptive parents, and preparing any post-adoption agreements.

Interested in Speaking with an Adoption Attorney?

If the prospect of speaking with an adoption attorney in Florida resonates with you, Hausmann & Hickman, P.A. is here to offer the support and legal counsel you need. Our attorneys are well-versed in the nuances of Florida adoption law and are dedicated to providing a compassionate and professional service to birth mothers across the state.

Reaching out to us is the first step towards understanding your options and ensuring that your adoption journey is handled with care and legal expertise. We invite you to contact Hausmann & Hickman, P.A. to schedule a private and confidential consultation. It is our commitment to help you navigate this pivotal chapter of your life with confidence and peace of mind.

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What is an Adoption Plan?

At Hausmann & Hickman, P.A., we are mindful of the emotional complexity and difficult decisions involved when a birth mother considers the future of her unborn child. We provide a supportive, compassionate, and respectful environment to permit a woman the opportunity to explore the courageous decision whether to place her child for adoption.  In today’s discussion, we dive into the concept of an adoption plan—a tool that empowers birth mothers with the ability to tailor the adoption process to their personal wishes and the needs of their baby.

For those contemplating adoption, an adoption plan allows the birth mother the ability to personalize her adoption process. At Hausmann & Hickman, we work closely with birth mothers to ensure that their voice is heard and their desires for their child’s future are realized. Creating an adoption plan is a deeply personal journey, and we are here to guide and support birth parents through each step with the utmost professionalism and empathy. An adoption plan is a way for birth mothers to reclaim agency in a situation that may feel overwhelming at times.

Understanding the adoption plan and its significance is crucial for those considering placing their baby for adoption. It’s more than a legal arrangement; it’s a comfort to a mother’s heart, knowing she has a voice in her baby’s future.

What is an Adoption Plan?

An adoption plan is a framework that outlines the preferences and conditions under which a birth mother places her child for adoption. It is a personalized plan created by each birth mother, with the assistance of adoption professionals, to fulfill her wishes for her child’s future. This plan covers a range of preferences, from selecting the adoptive family to deciding the level of contact she wishes to maintain after the adoption.

  • Select an adoptive family: The creation of an adoption plan allows a birth mother to choose an adoptive family that aligns with her wishes for her child, including the type of family environment, cultural background, religious considerations, and even the educational opportunities she hopes her child will have. By establishing an adoption plan, a birth mother narrows her selection of adoptive parents, ensuring the families she considers align with her values and desires.
  • Openness in adoption: Moreover, the adoption plan provides a platform for birth mothers to express their thoughts concerning openness of the adoption. Each birth mother will select for an open, semi-open, or closed adoption, each with varying degrees of communication and interactions with the child and the adoptive family. This critical decision-making process is handled with care and sensitivity at Hausmann & Hickman, as we understand the lifelong implications these choices have for all involved parties.
  • Birth plan: In crafting an adoption plan, birth mothers can also decide on the level of involvement they wish to have with the adoptive family during the pregnancy and at the hospital. This includes decisions about who will be present at the birth, what interactions she will have with the baby, and how the child will be transitioned to the adoptive family. Each element of the plan is tailored to the comfort and preference of the birth mother, providing her with a sense of agency and peace of mind.

Benefits of an Adoption Plan

·         Clarifies boundaries for birth and adoptive parents: An advantage of an adoption plan is the clarity it provides. It outlines the expectations and boundaries for all parties, reducing uncertainties and fostering a sense of security. For birth mothers, knowing the specifics of how their child will be raised and by whom can alleviate some of the emotional burden associated with the adoption process. The adoption plan also promotes a positive and open line of communication between the birth mother and the adoptive family. Whether through letters, pictures, or direct contact, this communication ensures that the birth mother remains a respected figure in her child’s narrative. It’s a source of comfort and connection that honors her role in her child’s life story.

  • Protects your rights in your adoption: An adoption plan created with the guidance of an adoption attorney can offer legal peace of mind. By outlining the terms of the adoption, all legal rights and responsibilities are clearly defined, which is essential for the protection of all parties, especially the child. The birth mother can rest assured that her child’s future is legally secured in a way that reflects her wishes.

Considering Adoption?

If you’re a birth mother in Florida, grappling with the decision of adoption for your child, Hausmann & Hickman, P.A. is here to support you with expertise and empathy. We recognize the magnitude of your considerations and offer a safe space to explore your options. Our team is dedicated to providing personalized guidance, ensuring that your voice and your story are honored throughout the adoption process.

Scheduling a private consultation with us is the first step towards understanding the full scope of adoption and how it may be the right path for you and your baby. In this consultation, we will discuss options you may consider for your adoption plan, address any concerns, and answer all of your questions with the sensitivity and confidentiality you deserve.

Considering adoption is a journey of profound love and responsibility. At Hausmann & Hickman, P.A., we are committed to walking this path with you, offering our support to help you make the best decision for your child’s future. Remember, you are not alone in this. We are here to help every step of the way.

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When Should I Create an Adoption Plan?

At Hausmann & Hickman, P.A., we recognize that the decision to place a child up for adoption is one of the most profound and emotional choices a birth mother can make. Our team is dedicated to providing compassionate guidance and professional assistance to birth mother considering this life-changing step. Our goal is not just to act as a legal adoption entity but to offer support and understanding at each phase of your adoption journey. In this blog, we will focus on one crucial aspect of the adoption process—the adoption plan—and discuss when the best time is for a birth mother to create a plan.

An adoption plan serves as a roadmap for the adoption process, detailing your choices from the type of adoptive family you wish your child, to how open you want your adoption to progress.  A plan gives you, the birth mother, a sense of control and involvement in a process that can often feel overwhelming. This plan also enables prospective adoptive families to understand your wishes, creating a transparent and respectful environment for everyone involved.

We understand that making an adoption plan is a significant commitment. It requires deep introspection and, often, challenging conversations with friends, family, and adoption professionals. Regardless of where you are in your pregnancy or your decision-making process, we are here to offer our expertise and support. This blog aims to provide some insights on when and how to begin crafting your adoption plan, ensuring you have the knowledge and resources you need to make the best choices for you and your child.

When Should I Create an Adoption Plan?

In many cases, an adoption plan is created during pregnancy after a birth mother considers all her parenting options and decides that an adoption placement is the best alternative for her and her child. A comprehensive adoption plan constructed while you are still pregnant offers numerous advantages.

A plan created before your child’s birth provides more time to fully explore and consider all your choices. A thoughtful and complete adoption plan is proactive allowing time to establish a meaningful relationship with your selected adoptive family.  Birth mothers frequently report that a relationship with their selected family assisted in their recovery and transition after an adoption placement.

As a birth mother exploring this relationship, you can decide the level of openness and set the terms of what contact you desire after your child’s adoption placement.  In essence, an adoption plan empowers you to shape your child’s future before they even arrive in the world.

If you are hesitant or unsure about your choices, please keep in mind that an adoption plan is not set in stone. Life circumstances can change, and your plan can be adjusted accordingly. Our adoption professionals at Hausmann & Hickman will guide you through any revisions to make sure the final plan aligns with your current situation and feelings.

Most important, creating an adoption plan while pregnant can help lessen the emotional stress associated with the adoption process. Knowing that there’s a carefully thought-out plan in place can bring peace of mind during an emotionally turbulent period in your life.

Is it Too Late to Create an Adoption Plan After Birth?

It is never too late to create an adoption plan for your child.  Each woman’s situation is unique, and sometimes the decision to place a child for adoption does not crystallize until after the birth experience.  An adoption placement is an important decision which can only be made at a time that is right for each birth mother.

A post-birth adoption plan can provide the same level of direction over your child’s future.  While the time to make decisions maybe a bit more expedited due to the immediate needs of a newborn, you have the same choices and options available when creating a pre-birth adoption plan.

Adoptive families understand that birth mothers may come to the decision to place their child for adoption at different stages. Whether you create a plan pre- or post-birth, the intention is the same—to ensure the child grows up in a loving, nurturing environment. And rest assured, even if your plan is made after the birth, the caring team at Hausmann & Hickman can guide you through the process in a seamless manner.

The bottom line is, it is never too late to plan for your child’s future. Your wishes and your child’s well-being are our utmost priorities, regardless of when you decide to initiate the adoption process.

How Do I Get Started with Creating My Adoption Plan?

If you are ready to take the step of creating an adoption plan, the Florida adoption attorneys at Hausmann & Hickman are here to assist you. The first step is to reach out to us for a confidential communication. We will guide you through the details of adoption laws, answer your questions, and assist you to make an adoption plan.

We understand that this is a highly sensitive and personal decision, which is why all conversations with us are strictly confidential.

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Can I Choose the Family that Adopts My Baby?

At Hausmann & Hickman, P.A., we strongly encourage every birth mother to choose the adoptive parents for their baby.  The decision to place your baby for adoption is an incredibly emotional and complex journey.  Our team of adoption specialists work hard to provide a supportive environment.  All parents considering adoption possess a deep level of care and concern for their child’s well-being and they need assistance and resources to help them make the best decisions for their child’s future.  In this blog, we will shed light on this very important question and offer details that can inform birth mothers when making decisions.

Am I Able to Choose the Adoptive Parents of My Child?

Yes, all birth parents working with Hausmann & Hickman have the essential right to choose the parents who will adopt their child. A significant component of our program is a birth parent’s ability to create their own adoption plan. At the center of each individual adoption plan is the selection of adoptive parents and decisions regarding the role adoptive parents will have during the pregnancy, birth, and initial hours of your child’s life.  This is your pregnancy, your baby, and your adoption plan.

By choosing the adoptive family for your baby, you can pick the parents that you believe are the best fit for you and your child.  We will provide information about all members of each prospective family and an extensive description of the life they will offer your child.  You can request to review family profiles that meet your specific preferences such as: age; religion; state of residence; and child care arrangements (including whether one parent will stay home full time with their child).  Our team will always respect your wishes and will work hard to help you find the right family.

Your involvement with your selective adoptive family does not end once you make this important decision, we encourage all birth parents to meet their selected adoptive family in person or through video chat.  Our extensive experience has taught us that birth mothers acquire a greater sense of confidence in their adoption plan when they establish a relationship with the adoptive parents.  A relationship between birth and adoptive parents is positive for the child and provides a comfortable foundation for post adoption communication.  Our team will assist in coordinating all the details and can accompany you during your meeting with the adoptive family.

All our adoptive parents are committed to sharing photos and update letters demonstrating your child’s growth and development over the years and some will participate in visits.  You make the decision on how you will connect with your adoptive family and whether you maintain a relationship after your child’s placement.  Your comfort and peace of mind is the most important consideration.

Reasons Why a Birth Mother May Want to Choose Her Child’s Adoptive Parents

Selecting your child’s adoptive parents can provide a sense of comfort and control in an emotional and often stressful time. The choice allows you to influence the environment your child will grow up in, ensuring that it aligns with your values, cultural background, or religious beliefs. This feeling of control can alleviate some of the emotional strain that accompanies the adoption process, offering you peace of mind that your child’s well-being is being considered in a way that mirrors your own ideals.

The ability to choose the adoptive family also gives you the chance to form a meaningful bond with that family before you place your child for adoption. This connection can offer an invaluable source of reassurance and emotional support, both during the adoption process and beyond. Knowing who will raise your child can make the transition easier for everyone involved. It may also pave the way for a more open or semi-open adoption, should that be your wish, fostering a lasting relationship between you, the adoptive family, and potentially even your child.

Lastly, selecting the adoptive parents empowers you as a birth mother. This empowerment can be especially significant given that the decision to place a child for adoption often comes during a period of vulnerability and uncertainty. Having the ability to shape your child’s future by picking a loving and suitable family can provide you with a sense of purpose and agency, helping you to navigate the emotional complexities that come with the adoption process.

What Are Some of the Other Benefits of an Adoption Plan?

Aside from choosing the adoptive family, creating an adoption plan offers several other advantages. Firstly, it allows you to decide the nature of the adoption—be it open, semi-open, or closed. An open adoption, for example, would enable ongoing communication with your child and the adoptive family, whereas a closed adoption would involve limited or no contact. Through an adoption plan you can also stipulate the frequency and types of updates you would like to receive about your child, whether that is through photos, letters, or occasional visits.

An adoption plan provides you with the opportunity to outline your preferences for your child’s upbringing, including educational aspirations and cultural influences. The plan also helps the adoptive family understand your wishes clearly, making for a smoother journey for all parties involved.

Interested in Learning More?

If you are pregnant and considering adoption as an alternative to raising your baby, the Florida adoption attorneys at Hausmann & Hickman would be honored to assist you. We are here to answer all your questions and guide you through this intricate process. We understand that each adoption journey is unique, and we tailor our services to meet your individual needs. Should you decide to place your baby for adoption, know that we will be by your side to help you navigate through each step, ensuring that your experience is as comfortable and fulfilling as possible.

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What Should I Consider When Making an Adoption Plan?

Creating an adoption plan may seem overwhelming, but a thoughtful plan is vital to your peace of mind that your selected adoptive family aligns with your hopes and expectations for your child. A planned adoption process is designed to ensure that your child’s future is secure and that your child will grow up in a loving and supportive environment consistent with your values. An adoption plan can help make the transition smoother for you, your baby, and the adoptive family.

Adoption is a deeply personal journey that is unique to each parent. Taking time to craft a thoughtful adoption plan will help you clearly and accurately articulate your needs, desires, and expectations. At Hausmann & Hickman, P.A., we understand that this process is emotional and complex, and we strive to provide you guidance and support every step of the way.

What is an Adoption Plan?

An adoption plan is a roadmap that outlines how you want the adoption process to unfold. An adoption plan helps ensure that your wishes for your child are clearly communicated and honored. Through an adoption plan, you can detail all aspects of your adoption journey from the type of family you wish for your child to the level of contact you would like to have with the adoptive family and your child before, during and after your placement.

A comprehensive adoption plan also serves as a guide for the adoptive family, the adoption agency, and other entities involved in your adoption process. A plan should encapsulate your vision regarding the adoptive family’s role during the birth, placement and transition of your child and will help you prepare for the emotional experience of an adoption placement.  It is a thoughtful and considerate process that requires careful deliberation and the courage. Most importantly, a comprehensive plan places you in charge of your adoption, incorporates your values, beliefs and allows you to have a significant role in shaping your child’s future.


While creating an adoption plan, you have the autonomy to express your preferences to ensure your plan reflects your courage and commitment to a secure, loving future for your child.

What Should I Consider When Making My Adoption Plan?

Several critical factors should be considered when drafting an adoption plan. One primary consideration is what level of open communication you would like to have with the adoptive family and your child such as an open, semi open, or closed adoption best meets you and your child’s interests. An open adoption allows you to maintain contact with your child and the adoptive family through a range of options such as scheduled in-person visits, phone calls, videos, or letters.  Aa semi-open adoption involves limited contact through written updates and pictures.  A closed adoption involves no contact after the adoption.  The concept of openness in your adoption is fluid and we recommend that you work with an adoption professional when considering all your options.

Identify the characteristics you want in your selected adoptive family.  You should consider facts to look for such as their values, lifestyle, education, and other children in the home. Preferences such as religious or cultural background, or the geographical location of the family maybe significant to your selection.

A detailed hospital “birth” plan is essential to ensure your wishes are respected during this sensitive time.  A birth plan should include your preferences on who is present when you deliver your child, the interactions with the adoptive parents at the hospital, and the time that you spend with your baby after birth.

Your emotional well-being is the most important element of any adoption plan. Adoption is a significant decision that can carry emotional ramifications. Make sure you have a support system in place, whether it’s family, friends, or a counselor.

Do You Have Questions About Your Adoption Plan?

Navigating through the adoption process and creating an adoption plan may feel overwhelming. The attorneys at Hausmann & Hickman, P.A. are here to guide you through this process. Whether you need assistance in creating your adoption plan or have general questions about adoption, we’re here to help.

Our team is committed to maintaining your privacy. We assure you that all conversations are strictly confidential and treated with the utmost respect. You can feel comfortable discussing your hopes, fears, and questions with us, knowing that we are here to provide answers and guidance.

You are not alone in this journey. Let us stand by your side, providing legal guidance and emotional support as you make the best decisions for you and your baby. The team at Hausmann & Hickman, P.A. is dedicated to helping birth mothers navigate the adoption process with knowledge, confidence, and compassion. We welcome the opportunity to assist you during this significant time in your life.